I may have permanently shot myself in the foot. The W admitted to me this morning that she still thinks about the fact that I kissed OW and that it bugs her when we kiss. You are not shooting yourself in the foot, she is Chrome. You cannot change the past. Just like I cannot change my R with OM. Our H/W have to deal with that or not. You are doing what you can to make her as comfortable as possible while still keeping on top of the issue. She is using the ow kiss as an excuse to not work on her own sexuality. Just my 2 cents.
