Hey Sheila. I see lots of baby steps with you, and it made me feel good to see all your thoughts on marriage. I think H is working on things and so are you (although you may not feel like you are). I'm hoping you are doing things just for Sheila too.
I think it is great that he got a new job, that he called his friend the C, and I hope he gets his $ things straight too. Seeing the C call and how worked with him, I was reminded of how I overcome the problem of not doing what I said I would/or should do. I do it the instant it comes up. Just like H, I do best if I say "You wanna do C?" and then pick up the phone right then and there and set it up. Don't ask me why (cause I don't know), but if it I had waited till Monday morning or whatever to do it, I would have forgotten.
