Just ate a little something. It's amazing how a broken heart can mess you up physically. I hadn't been hungry most of the day.
Imdi, glad you took some advice that was posted here! Anything that helps any of us is a blessing.
Shocked, yes, I do remember the frozen in time post. All I can do now is detach again like I did before. If it flusters him again, well, I'll try to deal with it better next time.
update: He has already tried to call me again. Can you even believe this? I did not answer my phone and let it go to vm, which, surprisingly, he left a message. In it, he said, "Hi, it's me..." in a fairly down-sounding tone of voice. He wanted to tell me he had used the debit card and had some updates to our shared acct., so when I got a chance could I give him a call? Then he closed with his ever-popular "Take care". So now he's baited the trap. He could have left the amounts of the receipts on the message, but instead he's asked me to call him back. I wanted to let some time go by before I did that. It probably means nothing that he called; he didn't say, "Wanted to see how you are doing." I'm going to open a new thread, as this will lock soon.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
