Ok Hopefloats7, I hink you might benefit from the MLC board also, since it has some good suggestions about what to do. I know it sounds like H might be too young for MLC, but he is very close to the bottom area.
I fell into the trap a last week, W decided she wanted to ML. I thought it was nice, but she commented how bad it was later. I think she was also testing her feelings.
You need to get strong and not co-dependent on H. I know this is hard right now since you are reeling. Keep posting and stay strong.
Read these threads to understand everything better.
