Hope: I know how you feel. My W gave me the same speech last Thursday. Almost word-for-word. I was heart broken. But you have to remember, It is the alien talking. He is so confused that all he can see is the quick way out. Here is where you need to go dark. I am going dark now & it is very hard. If it was't for all my friends here I know I could not make it. You have to decide if your M is worth it. I know mine is. I am going to stick it out until something happens, one way or another. By GAL, you will feel better about your life & it will make it easier to detatch. I am in the same sitch as you so maybe we can help each other. keep posting!!
