H is very confused... and also placing some unrealistic expectation on you. Don't feel guilty for that, or that you have to do something different so he doesn't feel this way. I will try not to, but it's so hard to not personalize everything all the time. This is some seriously tricky business, dealing with these WAH's. I'm sure you are just a whirlwind of emotions right now, but just remain calm. H WILL be back again... just prepare yourself for how YOU want to handle it... Trying to be calm, trying to not get all stirred up like before. It's so difficult. And now this thing with the weekend; it would be easy to get my hopes up about this, but I'm afraid to do that. I wish he would just make up his mind...what's it gonna be???
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
