Wow! I just caught up with the most recent events in your situation, and like you, I'm taken aback by your H!
I don't think I have more to contribute than any of the other posters before me, but I do agree with all the advice. Continue to let H intitate contact with you, do not persue, etc. It does appear H is very confused... and also placing some unrealistic expectation on you. Don't feel guilty for that, or that you have to do something different so he doesn't feel this way. He will just have to come to terms with it on his own time and realize he's going to have to put a little more effort and work into things if he wants to get to that "comfortable " place with you again, especially after all the drama he's caused over the past 6 months...
I'm sure you are just a whirlwind of emotions right now, but just remain calm. H WILL be back again... just prepare yourself for how YOU want to handle it...
I'm thinking of you-
PetiteFlower
Quote: Follow Your Bliss
~Joseph Campbell
