Hope- I think that you are gaining back some control over the situation...don't relinquish it. You need to maintain your stance, as hard as that is. Look where it has gotten you...he is curious...he is exploring his feelings for you...that's a good thing. Listen to me: you did nothing wrong!!! He is very confused. The fact that he acknowledged coming over as a way to see if he still feels comfortable means that he is confused. You need to use his ambivalence to your advantage. Keep up the mystery. Don't pursue. Leave the contact up to him...i guarantee he will call. He doesn't feel comfortable b/c you have turned the tables on him...you've switched it up by being a distancer...and he doesn't like it. But, it means that he is feeling something and thinking about you and him. Keep doing what you were doing...it was working!
