So your H. is also very self-absorbed? It seems there is no consideration for how I’m doing at all. It’s so unattractive, I find myself wondering why I love a man like this. I can’t answer that sometimes.
I still love my W very much but sometimes I think I would find a garden Gnome attractive right about now if you know what I mean. Don't beat yourself up. I am really happy you are getting together with people who can empathize with you. Have a GREAT time and let us know how it went!