I know just how you feel. I snoop more than I should and then find out things that drive me crazy only to later find they were innocent. The problem is, before I found out about his A I didn't do all this snooping. Now I just don't know when he's lying and when he's telling the truth.
It doesn't help that he's had a history of inappropriate female friends. When we were first dating I was dropping him off at the airport for an extended return to England (where he's from) and a female friend of his showed up as we were trying to have a tearful goodbye. It pissed me off that she showed up (and gave him an expensive watch as a going away gift) but I should have thought to ask why he told her when and where his flight was to begin with.
Regardless, I'm glad to hear your fears were calmed without having to resort to asking him directly.
