I promised myself, no tears on V-day. None. I will not let it upset me so badly that I cry over it. H & o.w.'s R. is a facade. They have no business celebrating the day, but I'm sure they will regardless. I hope they feel the phoniness of it.
Sorry for the bitter words...it's not my nature, but I feel strongly about this!
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.