Hi girls, Thanks for posting. Yes, I'm trying to be good to myself. I feel so up and down lately. One day, I'm good, next day I'm down again. Ugh. H. never called back so I don't know when we will get together to go over the finances. It is something we have to work out though. I am planning what I want to say to him. I want him to know that I do hear him; that I understand he is not coming back right now. That he is living a different lifestyle and trying to be happy. He has gotten frustrated with me in the past because he believes I do not listen to what he is saying, that he isn't planning to come back. I want to tell him I hear him. I do want to tell him I miss his friendship, but I don't know if that's carrying it a bit far. Any thoughts? I'm not trying to apply pressure here. A quiet evening at home; time for tea.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
