Just something I posted on Wendy's thread reminded me to note that I have been so detached as to not even be snooping much at all. I do check from time to time, and today especially was on edge as it was SM's birthday (mine is coming up soon, so I'm well aware of hers), but for the most part I've even forgotten to snoop, which is a good thing in a way and a bad thing in that I've become so detached as almost not to care.