Vince, glad you picked up the book. Interesting that you picked up your W as being a distancer. Do you find yourself as always a Pursuer, or only when the A happened?
When I read it, I realized that I am most certainly a distancer. I would have to say that Dave was the pursuer in our R from day one and I was always backing off or pushing him away, not wanting to get close and protecting myself. Perhaps looking at the R now, maybe I just knew it wasn't the one. Who knows?