I have that book, also, and I have found it so helpful to me. Sassy let me borrow hers. It also explains the different types of affairs. I'm still not really sure what "type" my H's is...romantic, or an exit affair. I don't know. Do you think most of these WAS's in MLC have romantic affairs? Hang in there and don't get down. Remember, she is a distancer.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
