One week ago was the last time I spoke to my W and that was at the final MC where I dropped the big D...She is really getting me back allright...she has still made no contact with me nor do I think it will be coming.
L called me yesterday and asked me for W address and I told her that I did not have it since she moved out...because I wanted to "give her privacy/freedom"...she said that she needed the address so she would be served (ouch! Seems so real now).
So I had needed a couple of other items to discuss so I called yesterday afternoon knowing I would get her VM. When I heard her voice saying her first and last name (my name) it crushed me all over again...It just hit me so odd to hear her say a name that will be no longer.
When I called I said that I had a couple of things to talk about 1) we had an offer on our investment prop and I need her to sign the contract 2) she has some work boxes that have been delivered to the house and 3) I need to get her apartment address and she could e-mail me or call which ever she wished. I said that I hope all is well and take care.
Still have not heard back from her...She is going to ruin this offer from this buyer on our property and really put us in a financial pinch having to continue paying another mortgage payment...she's in lala land with OM and isn't thinking consequesnces...but has she ever through this whole thing...I have decided to give it today and if she does not call me then I will call her tomorrow and explain how important it is that she call me about the contract.
Friends think she may be stalling because she knows why I want her address (to be served) and she is either stalling to make sure that this is what she wants or stalling to give her more time to get her own ducks in a row for a battle...I think the latter.
