It seems I am just a few steps behind you in our journey! I was going to call the L today but I still have not had the will to do so! I still am not ready for that next step. I guess I will let it go for awhile and see what happens. If she wants to initiate it she can! Vince you are astrong man and wll get through this! I am watching your sitch closely because we are on the same path!
Tim
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