Ok...I made it through another weekend...still no contact on either side. She must really want this D. Friends think she is really mad at me because I'm just not giving her cake and eat it too anymore...

I think they are right that she is really pissed but because I told her that I was going to be seeking financial support for all of our bills and that she could run away from the M but not debts. I don't think she likes that very much...I think she thought that she could just walk away, grab some of our savings (not much there) and start over with just "her" money and she could do whatever she wants and buy whatever she wants. Sorry...not how it works! I'm so suprised that she hasn't called and tried to negotiate out of paying...must mean she has a L and I'm in for a dogfight...fortunatly I have the truth and loyalty on my side and not lies and infidelity.