Question for the board...she told the MC after I left that she tried to establish contact with me but I was not receptive (going dark)...this might just have been her way of saving face...but do you all think that I continue to go dark during this time of D?
Ah the old bait/switch...she's going to put the blame on YOU so she doesn't have to accept any responsibility for the current state of the M and the potential D.
Things that make you go hmmmm...
Continue to go dark? I don't know honey...the letter wasn't going you being dark, but you had to do it to cleanse your heart, right? Because that's the only reason I can see having done it. She's not receptive right now...maybe later. What does your Therapist suggest?
