Thank all of you for the support...Today I am still happy with my decision. However, it does not make it any less painful...it is what "I" had to do for myself and my sitch...If she was at home I maybe could have lasted longer (maybe) or if we had children, for sure. But I'm 37 years old and have no children and really want that to be a part of my life and W is just not interested in that right now much less a R or M. She said last night that OM was in the "right place at the right time" and that was it..."he is comfortable" So I said that he is the easy way out...W said that she knows that it would take a lot of energy in her finding and new job (OM/co-worder) and to work on the M and she just doesn't thing that she has it in her...I agree. She still does not understand the real quality things in life are achieved by earning them...not just given to them. What happens when there is no one else to give? She will be very lonly.
