Thanks you for your thoughts...But i have not fallen...just starting a new chapter in my life...one that will be filled with someone who loves me for who I am and hopefully who I can trust. You mentioned I deserve better, thanks...I think I do also.

As for going anywhere on this BB...I know this is the start of a new roller coaster and I believe that a lot of you could learn from what I am going to go through...good and bad so I will stay here...

I still think the reality has not sunk in to her yet...I really think the money thing is going to get to her first...When times get tough and the OM is not of financial means to cure W spending habits she is going to hate life...I really hate that sitch that will prob show its ugly head...I'll have a decision to make at that point...take the spoiled brat back only to have this happen again or move on and run as fast as I can. Who knows maybe I will escape having to make that decision.