Update: First...been a couple of days and yes I'm still alive and reading bb everyday, keeping up with everybody.
Interesting point of interest...as I last posted on Sunday...W was heading to OM house after a long road trip from home town...she stayed until about 10:45 and went back to her apt...another 30min drive...very interesting...did they have a fight and she left to go back to her place? why would she not stay the night...she always has in the past?
Second...W calls me on Monday and I send it to VM...she says that she was just calling to confirm MC appt on Wed and to make sure that time was OK with me and to see how I was doing with GF death and just to chat....wow! To chat? That's new...she also was asking me if that time worked for MC versus telling when she would be avail. I returned the call later that day and got her VM...Then....
I was shocked...she changed her cell phone VM to say her first and last name (my last name)...she hasn't done that since we were first married...for about the past year she had just had her first name on VM...I know, you are all saying that I'm rading too much into this and you are all probabily right...but here is what I see the signifigance...I think she could have changed it for my benefit OR she could have changed it for OM benefit as to remind him who she is or maybe to remind herself who she is...I know that she must have changed it within the past week and if you were so cheked out of the marriage would you accent your last name on personal cell phone (not work) and our last name is not an easy as Smith either to say...Does anyone think there is anything to this or am I just hopefully reading into my sitch hoping for a high on my roller coaster ride from h$ll.
