You are doing what I do trying to guess what is going on! It drives me crazy not knowing then my mind convinces me that everything is wrong and then I react with emmotions. STOP! Easier said than done but use this opportunity with the MC to really gauge things, and set some real goals with the MC. I believe you are on the right path! Take a moment and read my recent post if you can. Thanx
Tim
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