Quote: I think she is trying to disguise the reason for her leaving as not Om but all because of me and my controling nature...and that is just not fair...
My W did the same and is doing it again. the thing is I am controling and did try to control her very much through our marriage. Now I have really identified it as an issue I have. I will always have that controling nature, but I need to use it as a positive for myself, and not a negative. The thing is your W wil do anything to justify her actions. It is not right, and once they realize they are as much to blame things will start to change. How many MC sessions have you already had? Is it worth a visit on your own to the MC to voice your goals and concerns, and just talk about yourself not your w?
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
