Really take a look at hat NY said. The quote he used was from me about "telling my W to be with the OM". Everything he said in his post is exactly how I have been feeling since it happened. I worked for months to get back with my W and it finally happened, and then after it started to fall apart again I was ready to give up. I forgot of the months of hard work and pain I endured, and then in one moment of emmotional weakness I throw it all away. I stopped taking the high road, and put all my efforts into myself, and the people I care about and love. I became selfish, and took the low road! I hurt now! Thanx NY for your wise words and brutal honesty. Please read NY's post, and learn from me. Tim
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
