.I know this is where NYS chimes in and says you're not detaching and if you did it wouldn't bother you that she is with OM...well it hurts and I guess I'm not detached and I guess I won't be until she is out of my life.
Vinces, I understand this. I too believe that my H must be out of my life before I will be able to *totally* detach. It's a very trying, very difficult, process. I can totally identify with your wanting to move on. You are not weak. You are human.
Spitfire
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain
