I look around to all my loving family and I think they are all too good of people to let W be a part of it... You know, sometimes I’ll be reading a thread and someone will make a comment like this that literally stuns me, because I then realize I feel exactly the same way. Vinces, I am very sorry about your gf’s passing. Please accept my condolences on this. I hope you are doing ok. I hope you will wait a couple days to get a little clearer before you really end things with your wife. You just dealt with a death in the family and your emotions are all over the place. Let things settle and see how you feel in a week. What do you think?
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.