I can certainly empathize with your pain and your sitch. Like TMU, I feel that I'm to new to this whole ordeal to offer up any real advice, but what NYS had to say really resonated with me to some degree. It appears that you haven't detached emotionally at this point, but basing your decision on expectations and artificial timetables. I think all in all, you don't want to take this course of action lightly. If you are truly prepared to do it, then that is one thing, but if Monday comes and you issue an ultimatum, you must be prepared to accept the consequences on Tuesday.
My thoughts are with you and I sincerely hope you find peace in whatever decision you make.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
