Quote: Just wanted to add that you know my sitch: it's very similar to yours from the opposite POV. My H has hurt me *a lot* over the years, yet I would still have him back if he really did make the necessary changes (i.e. stop drinking, treat me with respect).
But WHY Nicola? WHY? WHY would you want him back? Because he left you?
What if you had left him? Would you still take him back if he changed then? WHY?
Why would anyone do something like that? Why would my soon to be EX wife? She's HAPPY without ME. She's UNHAPPY with ME. OM isn't going to go away and even if he does, she's HAPPY without ME. It doesn't get any simpler than that.
