Ok Frank. You blew up; it’s all right. We’ve all done it. But I know you are just frustrated and upset because your feelings are crushed by what your W. is doing. I know it feels so great in the moment to release all of that anger, all that pain. Now, you can get back to DB’ing if you so choose. I know you say you don’t want your marriage, but I really think you do. Give it a few hours and when you cool down you will probably agree. You’ve been in the fight for so long now; I know your marriage means a lot to you. Just offering your support. Don’t listen to your W. rewriting your history. They all do it, and not to our benefit. She’s justifying what she’s doing with om so that it appears more acceptable to her.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
