Quote: It is amazing. You go about this and I hope you see a 50 yr ann. but would you do all of this if you did not have children. I mean how far do we have to go. AmyC says my situtaion is different. Boy did I know that but its nice to hear someone say it. I thought I was crazy
If I didn't have children I would not try for AS LONG.
Quote: Dont you think it might be better to let the W fall down on her face, learn a little about life and at the same time learn what an idiot this OM is. This other guy is not a Mench. You are! you are taking a higher road and this other guy is praying your wife. I don't really see it any other way
Sure, I think she has every chance of falling down. But, if she takes on the 'big' job she'll learn something from it all. And if she makes her business work at all, I can't help but wonder if she'll want him around when I will have been the supportive friend, not him. Or even better he comes for a 'visit' and may starts telling how WE can do this and WE can do that. It'll just piss her off.
Quote: By the way I figured you did not post for me becasue you think just like AmyC.
SOrt of. I just didn't have anythng different to add...
Quote: It appears to me that you are enabling the w and the OM. Dont you think it might be better to let the W fall down on her face, learn a little about life and at the same time learn what an idiot this OM is.
IF he comes out here and tries to screw with her business he will not make points with her. Besides, let's say the best he can do is a plane ticket and a large carpetbag? Not the kind of person you want. He will prove himself to be an idiot in one ver fundamentla way: He willl tell her his opinions on running her business, and she will ak me the same questions. Mine will be based on experience, human nature and integrity. What will his be based on? He doesn't seem to have any real successes under his belt.
