It is amazing. You go about this and I hope you see a 50 yr ann. but would you do all of this if you did not have children. I mean how far do we have to go. AmyC says my situtaion is different. Boy did I know that but its nice to hear someone say it. I thought I was crazy.
But i am not sure at this point when I read you rpost if you are DBing this at this point. It appears to me that you are enabling the w and the OM. Dont you think it might be better to let the W fall down on her face, learn a little about life and at the same time learn what an idiot this OM is. This other guy is not a Mench. You are! you are taking a higher road and this other guy is praying your wife. I don't really see it any other way.
By the way I figured you did not post for me becasue you think just like AmyC.