Frank ~ You did a great thing that could turn things to your favor eventually. True the OM could end up there but I don't think so. She's not going to be doing THAT good, I don't think. Listen, she has self-esteem issues, identity issues, independence issues....you just offered her the ability to keep one foot on solid ground while she steps out with the other foot onto the slippery ice. My H did something similar for me and the wings he gave me - ultimately started my heart on the road back home.
