Frank, we both need to get the OM and our W's off the mind. Granted, I wish I was still living with my W, but like tonight, she did not stop by knowing that we will not see each other or talk to each other until maybe Monday if she stops by. Sometimes I wonder if I should make some contact by phone or something occasionally. My mind swirls also when I think of two days of not knowing what she is doing.
The counselors you speak of, is one a DB coach and one a M counselor?
Bruce
PS Just went back and read a couple of your posts from yesterday. I am with you man, except my wife is already in business with the OP. To top it off it is about a block from my office. OP was walking across the street today and I look back and wonder why I just didn't run him over accidentally . Of course would not do that. OP's X says it won't last but 2 years until the old man comes out. Funny that knowing of him for 20 years and how he does and acts is all null and void now. He is "a wonderful man", "a very intelligent man", "such a patient man". It makes me pucke
We will both hang in there as long as it takes. Okay?