Quote: He's offering her a pipe dream and I have to wonder, if he really came to where you are, if she'd walk...would she go that far with it
Will HE come here? I haven't seen evidence that he is financially able to do anything like that. If he was, they would have been togehter by now.
A big question that one friend (in NY) keeps telling me is that the guy isn't real. He says he looks for vulnerable women and latches onto them, and lives off them. He's moving out of his (ex) GF house because they are fighting, to go live with his mom 'temporarily'.
I mean, is this guy for real? He's 39 years old and acts like this. Re-read her rants on an 3rd, she questions his integrity. A lot.
But TODAY after no contact for 4 days he tells her "He's attracted to her, that he "will get out there ..and will have the resources to do the lomi business (which she wants to do). He says " am in love with you,"
My favorite pessimist friend says "Gee, he doesn't talk to her for a few days and then says all the things she want to hear so he can keep her on the hook."
But WHY? Why is he 'in love' or possibly using her or what?
Is she getting a clue that he's not all he seems to be?
