Hey Frank. And I hope others back me up on this. I am NOT in your shoes. And I CANNOT feel your pain nor would I ever want but I read those emails.
This is b*llshit. Its like you have two people who are REALLY Fu*ked Up. I mean really. Its a joke. They appear to be longing for something like a drug addict. i cant explain it. Its not even like its rational.
Like talking about tru feelings. I got it. You know its like your first love. You hold thier hand every where you go and you never let go. And when you do you say 'I love you' and the other says "I love you more" and so on and so on....
I would be worried if he talked about you and the kids more. Talk real issues about life and creating one together. I know it all seems like pain to you and remember "I love you" are just ckicken scratches on a piece of paper. I bet if those emails were written in Chinese it would not affect you in the least. Get the point. I am sure you do.
She is an alien. Anyway that is how I see it. Its always easier to look from the outside but its clearer out here.
