The last time I saw Dave, I looked at him. Exterior wise he was still gorgeous as ever but there was something missing.
Yes, Sassy! I get what you are saying here. Something is missing in H., too. I don't know if it's that I view him differently because he has had an affair, or if I've finally noticed the lack of joy inside him. He's still quite handsome, but there is definitely something missing, like you said. Hi, kismet...sorry to hijack!
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.