I swear, the "Bomb Diet" is the single most effective weight loss method ever. Why is that? If we could only bottle it, we'd be RICH. I'm considering asking my H to have another affair just so I can re-lose that 20 lbs.
I agree! The BOMB diet does seem to work wonders! Took that last 35 pounds off fast! Of course now I exercise and eat well to keep it off (with a little chocolate in there too!). So far, so good!
When can we get rich?
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr
Quote: Well not meaning to state the obvious, but you know what cravings usually mean? Bet that scared you
There is ENOUGH of that going around here...not sure if you have the same phrase we do "There's something in the water." So I drink bottled water, not what the rest of my GFs drink. Want none of that...Between Tina, Tracey, Lisa, and the possibility of Mich being preggo, we're definitely keeping the population going here. Besides unless you believe in immaculate conception, nah...
But HA HA anyway...I think it was probably all the stress...I was smoking more the past couple of days too. Time to kick it all back into gear though.
I swear, the "Bomb Diet" is the single most effective weight loss method ever. Why is that? If we could only bottle it, we'd be RICH. I'm considering asking my H to have another affair just so I can re-lose that 20 lbs.
Yes, but why did I have to lose all the weight from my boobs and not my butt
Well I snooped and found out more about wah's state of mind. I sensed that S14 getting upset when gets a text message from his father. Checked the records. Since about the 13th he has been texting daily ~ all the same variation on the theme " I love you....I miss you". There was also a voicemail with a very pitiful message on it.
So wah seems to have cycled right back to where he was post bomb probably July ish. Feeling sad and sorry for himself. He misses S14 but drives past our house every day and cannot drop in to see S14. Spent less than 2 hours with him in the last fortnight or so and that was in the company of ow
Feel guilty that I snooped on son's phone, but as I am the one dealing with the fall out, I am grateful that I did so at least I know what is upsetting him.
So not sure whether this is mlc, or just a depression that wah has.Not sure that it really even helps to put a label on it.
I had a relaxing evening of sorts, went out with 2 friends for hot chocolate.
Public holiday here for Australia Day. I had had thoughts some time back that I would like to have a neighbourhood street sausage sizzle today to meet all the neighbours, as we generally stick to ourselves. Nothing big. Big 180 for me. But $$ is tight right now, and it just didn't happen. Will put it on the back burner for next year though.
Ever feel like you've been told. Here is today's Daily OM
Freeing Yourself Knowing When To Let Someone Go
Just as a good relationship can have a positive impact on your life, stressful, draining, or imbalanced relationships can have negative effects on your health and well-being. It's common to maintain a relationship because we feel the other person needs us or we believe that they will eventually change. We may also be afraid of hurting the other person or feel insecure in our ability to find new relationships. But knowing when to end a relationship and acknowledging that the pain will pass can often prevent greater pain and feelings of loss in the long run.
If you're in a relationship that isn't satisfying or one that has become unhealthy for you, rather than spending energy attempting to fix the problem or complaining, ask yourself what you really want from the relationship. Consider whether the other person truly considers your feelings or if they are willing to change their behavior. Ask yourself if you've often thought about ending the relationship or if you feel your bonds have atrophied. While every relationship has ups and downs, when there are more downs than ups or the two of you are bringing out the worst in each other, it may be time to sever the connection. Be honest with yourself and your answers, even if the truth is painful.
Relationships thrive on honesty, communication, mutual caring, and time spent together. When one or more of these elements are missing, it may be that the relationship, no matter how passionate, simply isn't worth it. It's far better to end a relationship that doesn't feel right than to hold on to it and languish in feelings of anger or resentment. Moving on without struggle, on the other hand, can be the door that leads you to a more nurturing relationship in the future.
Relationships thrive on honesty, communication, mutual caring, and time spent together. When one or more of these elements are missing, it may be that the relationship, no matter how passionate, simply isn't worth it. Right now, I'm getting none of the four from my H. Yes, kismet, it spoke loudly to me, too. Thank you so much for sharing this. I'm afraid I am beginning to see that my marriage is providing absolutely nothing for me anymore.
As for the Bomb Diet, I agree. I have joked with close friends and family (that know) about how if they want to lose the weight and keep it off, have their H. tell them they're cheating and leaving.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
Quote: As for the Bomb Diet, I agree. I have joked with close friends and family (that know) about how if they want to lose the weight and keep it off, have their H. tell them they're cheating and leaving.
LOL...got a new nickname today...Twiggy...LOL!! I am not a Twiggy...Sheesh if I am Twiggy that would make you a what?
Happy Australia Day...what is Australia Day...is that when all the handsome Aussie men come for a visit to the states?
Toasting a glass of Merlot to the girls down under!! You rock!!!
