I swear, the "Bomb Diet" is the single most effective weight loss method ever. Why is that? If we could only bottle it, we'd be RICH. I'm considering asking my H to have another affair just so I can re-lose that 20 lbs.


Yes, but why did I have to lose all the weight from my boobs and not my butt

Well I snooped and found out more about wah's state of mind. I sensed that S14 getting upset when gets a text message from his father. Checked the records. Since about the 13th he has been texting daily ~ all the same variation on the theme " I love you....I miss you". There was also a voicemail with a very pitiful message on it.

So wah seems to have cycled right back to where he was post bomb probably July ish. Feeling sad and sorry for himself. He misses S14 but drives past our house every day and cannot drop in to see S14. Spent less than 2 hours with him in the last fortnight or so and that was in the company of ow

Feel guilty that I snooped on son's phone, but as I am the one dealing with the fall out, I am grateful that I did so at least I know what is upsetting him.

So not sure whether this is mlc, or just a depression that wah has.Not sure that it really even helps to put a label on it.

I had a relaxing evening of sorts, went out with 2 friends for hot chocolate.

Public holiday here for Australia Day. I had had thoughts some time back that I would like to have a neighbourhood street sausage sizzle today to meet all the neighbours, as we generally stick to ourselves. Nothing big. Big 180 for me. But $$ is tight right now, and it just didn't happen. Will put it on the back burner for next year though.


Smile, it makes people wonder what you are up to!