Hey Kim, I think S14 is already at the point where he doesn't want to spend much time with his father. I mean in the last week he only saw him once and then had to share him with ow. But I will just try and fill S's life up with as many other things/people as possible.
I am not bringing it up with him, but noticed last night as well he came into my room and we watched "Waking the Dead" together and just joked around and talked about stuff, but not that. I think he will be fine as long as he feels secure.
In limbo right now as going back to college fulltime come Feb. Just trying to get house/garden in order. I am not going to apply for any jobs unless exactly what I want, or part-time to work around college until I get this certificate under my belt. It is only 3 days per week, so perhaps I can fit a casual job in as well.
Managed to finish filling the skip and got the garden cleaned up to a degree. Lots of pruning of plants, not that you can really tell. But a good 3 hours solid in the garden.
So nothing really happening in my life. Thoughts of wah still creep in but not as much. Eg yesterday, I had to saw a tree and couldn't find the tree saw so used some other saw which was rusty anyway. I could just hear wah whinging that I was doing it wrong, but I didn't listen to him.
