Sounds like you've been busy. Hope your son is feeling better. Did he ever let you in on what was upsetting him? Did he and the wanker have a good relationship prior to the bomb?
My boys seem to be coping fairly well. They did not have a close R with my wanker. They have come to not expect much and I am finally able to accept that this will be the nature of their relationship forever. My C has met all the boys and she feels that they are being authentic and are really not crushed that the wanker left. The "perfect family" was really only my fantasy, fairytale, whatever. Attention! Cinderella has left the building! Bout time.
I fell asleep on George (yeah I wish).
Me too!
Have a great day! (or night?)
Spitfire
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain