P&Dbing It's been a long time since I have posted to you. I was far more loyal when you were hanging out in separated. But I haven't forgotten about you. I check in, things seem to be going well, I think that I stopped posting about the time that you "dropped the rope" b/c emotionally I was not there (still am not) but the emotions were running the logic which kept me laying on the ground with the "welcome" sign on my forehead. i was just to far down to offer anything. Basically I still am, but I have 2 tidbits today I am so happy for you, envious too, but Hey I was envious the first day you posted b/c I wished that I were Preggo. Second, I know a happily married couple who had a seperation about 42 years ago, there is an alleged son, (he exists paternaty tests didn't)most people don't know that this man is the alleged father. He has been good to the boy and the boy does not know him as anything other than Uncle. (neighbor thing) She moved out b/c of A (and some other things maybe?) while preg herself. He didn't go to the delivery, but was a good dad from afar for a time, and managed to work it out. The couple have 2 kids 41, and 37 each married with kids of their own. They celebrated 45 years married in Nov. They are happy and more in love today than ever.
