Hey PandDBing- Although my sitch is not like yours, i would imagine that the emotions you are feeling are normal, including the anger. I agree...i think that it is important for you to get out those books on infidelity and read them. "Surviving Infidelity" was especially helpful for me.
I think it is normal to want your H to make up to you everything that he has done. But, remember that you are at different stages in terms of rebuilding your R. You haven't been distracted, like he has, by other forces. Over the past weeks, you have been focused on your M and he hasn't. There is a lot for both of you to process. But, i think it is important that you each be honest with the other about how you are feeling. MC will definitely help.
As for the "pregnant" ow...i gotta say, i'm with everyone else on this one...her "pregnancy" is very suspect. Your H has got to insist on some sort of proof or something...i think it is important for you both to know for sure, as it will obviously affect you from now on.
Thats my 2 cents...hope you are having a good day. Sending happy thoughts your way!
