Uh oh! Welcome to my world. Right now, whatever he does will not be enough and I hate to say it but suck some of it up. My H ended his A over two months ago and I'm still where you are so DEFINITELY SLOW DOWN. Read KDU's posts too. This is a very long process and the first month or so you are going to be very angry (probably more so with your hormones) and then weepy and then angry in the space of oh.......five minutes. And it goes on like this for what seems like forever but then your emotions level. Read the DB book it mentions this somewhere. Just try (ha) to control this in front of H so things don't blow up on you. If you have the DB book or any of them actually, read the parts about what to expect with your emotions to your H. It might help him understand. It's a hard haul on eggshells and I'm still there so......
