P&DB, I've been here done that and your sitch seems very close to mine. The night my H left me, he hooked up with an ex of his from the past. They ran around for 2 weeks together before my H decided he needed to be with me and our kids. A week later OW calls and says she is pregnant. I say, ok, let's travel to her town with a pregnancy test and see what's up. She's not interested, doesn't want me there so I end up dropping H off at her place and going elsewhere for the next hour. Finally, H calls me to come get him with a negative test and the knowledge that she's actually on birth control pills and it's a little more unlikely that she'd actually be pregnant. I flew off the handle because she was lying and manipulating my H. He had to restrain me from going into her apt. Before we found out the truth, I told my H that I would accept his mistake, love his mistake and treat his mistake as my own, if it came down to it but I was so relieved to find it was all a lie. The moral of my story is that it sounds to me like the OW's pregnancy in your sitch, is a huge fabrication. But you still need to support that H as if it's a truth because he'll come to realize that you have is back, in any sitch.


No solo de pan vive el hombre Y no de excusas vivo yo.