OK . . . I'll focus on the other stuff. Think of all of the time you have spent wishing if only . . . your H would come back. He did . . . and he didn't have to. I hope you won't "beat him up" over and over about this. Now you have a chance to be the greatest person on earth in his eyes by "being his friend". This is what DB talks about all of the time and if ever a guy needed a great friend . . . if is now. I think he's beat himself up a lot and will continue to do so. You can come out of this with your family in tact again. God does, indeed, work in mysterious way, doesn't he!
