Oh, she's full of BS all right. My money's on she's not even pregnant, but who knows.
If she really needs a ride to that appointment, tell H to tell her the TWO of you would be happy to give her a lift.
H should ask for a copy of her doctor's visit. If she won't provide it, I wouldn't even dream of communicating with her again.
Tells you what kind of wacko she is.
Of course, i don't believe your H when he says this either:
Quote: H has told me that they started having sex probably about a month after he left me, so that would be in October.
Of course he had sex with her sooner than that. He'd be the first WAS in the history of the board to wait a whole month before having sex with the OW he left his wife for. Not likely IMHO. Just some more face-saving fibs.
Stick to the high road, but insist that H protect himself by getting some proof that she's pregnant - and DON'T allow him to drive alone with her crazy self.