I’m trying to figure out what to say. That is a lot to take in! I commend you for still wanting to work things out. I’m very glad your H. has come to his senses about you and your baby; it’s unfortunate that before he did, he (possibly) got o.w. pregnant. I definitely agree; he needs a paternity test to prove it. I think you need to insist on MC at this point. You both have a lot to work out. I will keep checking back with you to see how this is panning out. Be brave!
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
