If Courts Had Contractions...

[Becca1975]

Well I think you should really throw her for a loop and ask for a Paternity test. She obviously is not of the highest morals to begin with. If not for the innocent children involved, I'd say she got her due for messing with a married man. She won't have any choice as far as you being around her child, your H is entitled to visitation with his child and she'd have a heck of a time trying to explain to a judge why she doesn't want the wife of the father of her child around the child.

Anyway, I'm sure you already know all of this. Just know that in the end, you won. It will be a very hard road ahead for you and if you are to make it work, you will have to find it within your heart to forgive. THat is truly the only way. I think the most important thing for you right now is to pray your heart out, for God to help you find a way through this and to love your H again and to forgive him for his mistakes. I don't envy you that, you are a stronger woman than I am just for allowing him the opportunity to make it right.