Holy crap, Preggo (Sorry Al, my first reaction also.)
In a blink of an eye stuff can change, I guess. Something definitely must be up over in Fantasyland.
OK, I can't help myself...practical stuff first. What did he mean the structure of your house is trashed? That might be high on my list of concerns right now. Can this be repaired? Is there any danger to you and the girls? Sorry. Stuff like this worries me.
WOW to all that other R stuff. Please go very, very slowly. H is obviously very confused. We will see if he calls on Sat. He might be singing a different tune after he has a look at those D papers. Even with the warning you gave him, they still may sting.
I am particularly intrigued by him getting in your space and feeling your tummy. Hmmmmmmmmmmm.
Please keep us posted to what is going on. Stay strong. There is a lot that has to happen in order for the two of you to heal and be back on the right track.
Hugs,
Spitty
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain